Comments on: My Medicine Game

By: TR17

TR17 — Thu, 18 Oct 2012 14:12:00 +0000

I am sorry to read about your loss…the story is a beautiful tribute.

By: Josh "Chewy" Acut

Josh "Chewy" Acut — Mon, 15 Oct 2012 16:17:00 +0000

Great piece CW. Thoughts and prayers.

-Josh

By: Verina Mathis-Crawford

Verina Mathis-Crawford — Sat, 13 Oct 2012 22:23:00 +0000

Hello Connor: My deepest condolences and sympathy to you and your family in the loss of your beloved, Mother. I’m sure you know–I know your pain with the sudden loss. I’m grateful to hear that you where surrounded with friends that can help you begin the slow process of healing. I’ll reach-out and call you when you are back in NYC. Be Well, My Lax Friend.

By: Jacob Crane

Jacob Crane — Sat, 13 Oct 2012 20:18:00 +0000

I lost my mom at the end of my senior year of high school. I thought there was no way that I would move on from it. Brian Langrty had heard about my mom passing and how he was her favorite player. Brian showed to my mother’s funeral to show his respects and give his condolences to me and my family. My high school teammates showed up at the funeral (many who came into the stands after games to get hugs from my mom who showed up and cheered for every player on our team at every game). Many of my teammates told me how she was the best fan in the stands, and that she was like their mom too. They all made some reference to being my family. I will never think of any of my teammates as anything less than family. Our team for the rest of the season wore her initials on our helmets. The week after my mom passed, we went to a Mammoth game where my moms picture was put on the big screen and a tribute was paid to her as a mother, wife, friend and die-hard lacrosse fan. With all of that being said, nothing made me feel better than getting out on the lacrosse field with my teammates (my family), and playing that game that I have come to love and depend on. And I know that my mom would be proud of the high points in my life and lacrosse career. She enjoyed nothing more than watching me play and I remember that every time I play or coach. The lacrosse community, and the game itself are magic. There is just something about lacrosse that has the power to heal and energize anyone who is a part of it. Keep your head up and keep turning to lacrosse.

By: Kyle Virding

Kyle Virding — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 17:04:00 +0000

I lost my Dad pretty suddenly a few years ago and the only thing that really felt natural to me was being on the field – investing my time and energy in to something greater than myself. I hope the field brings you continued peace as it has done for me…I say a prayer for my Dad every time I step on the field. I’ll add your Mom for the next one.

By: kiramuller

kiramuller — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 15:51:00 +0000

i am so sorry for your loss. it is clear that your mom’s light shines through you, and will continue to do so. may her memory be eternal and may you find comfort in knowing that she is always with you and watching you.
it does not surprise me (at all!) the strength you received from complete strangers who had that one thing in common with you – lacrosse. it is the beauty of this game and this community. it is similar to the epiphany i had two years ago about lacrosse, a sport i never played but have devoted 24 years of my life to through the Lacrosse Foundation and now US Lacrosse. the essence of the game is found in the people, the spirit of the game, the traditions, the connection to community. it is critical to the foundation of the sport. i applaud and encourage your efforts to grow the game! you are an invaluable tool in crafting the future of the sport.
i hope you will consider embracing the Keeper of Lacrosse Project at US Lacrosse (www.uslacrosse.org/keeper) in your efforts. This project is the result of my epiphany two years ago. The Keeper Project works to instill, protect and promote the essence of lacrosse in everyone. It is so much more than a game, wins and losses, clothing, tricks, or numbers of goals, assists and saves. As you acknowledge, it is medicine. It relieves. It heals. It unites. It enlightens. However, it will only continue to do all those things and more if we can teach the next generation to ground themselves in the core values, to cradle the Keeper Code:
· Playing in
the spirit of the game

· Embracing
tradition

· Promoting the virtues of
honor, integrity and respect

· Inspiring acts of
good sportsmanship

· Valuing the importance of
teamwork
· And, owning the responsibility and
connection to the greater community

My deepest condolences to you and your family. Continue to shine her light and breathe fire with a heart as big as hers in your good work in growing the game. As the “Keepers” say: The game is in your hands. Take good care of it. Clearly, you are. Thank you, and thanks to your mom for raising a man of character, altruism and respect.

Kira Muller
US Lacrosse

By: Alex Perry

Alex Perry — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 14:24:00 +0000

my thoughts and prayers with you and your family – reach out if there’s anything we can do to help you and your family out

By: billybronx3

billybronx3 — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 06:43:00 +0000

Im so sorry for your loss CW. My deepest condolences goes out to you and your fam

By: grandma

grandma — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 00:29:00 +0000

Conner you and your family are in our hearts and prayers, I think of you often and sending out a Big Hug to you, Grandma from Idaho.

By: Lacrosse Playground

Lacrosse Playground — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 21:54:00 +0000

we are so, so sorry for your loss Connor. your words are inspiring and encouraging. we’re with you.

By: Michael Brand

Michael Brand — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 20:21:00 +0000

We will lax for you at Texas State today brother!

By: Damian Hall

Damian Hall — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 20:17:00 +0000

Connor,

I am so sorry for your loss, but so greatful you are a part of this wonderful game that we love. That is one of the true beautiful things about sports, and lacrosse especially. It’s the largest family you could ever be a part of. Know that you certainly have my support.

By: Rett Bradford Thompson

Rett Bradford Thompson — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 20:13:00 +0000

So sorry for your loss. As we all grow older we start to realize how fragile life is and how easily things can change so quickly. Lacrosse helped get me through a really tough time as well. I’m glad to read it do the same for others.